Do Angels Have Sex in Heaven?
One comment in An Acceptable Sacrifice?, written almost in passing, was Jeremy Morris' comment (in his chapter on "The church and change: tradition and development") that, in the past:
"...all forms of sexual behaviour were regarded with suspicion. They were intrinsically disordered - angels would not have sex in heaven."
When I read that the first time through, it caught my eye (and why wouldn't it?) and it has stuck in my brain for a couple of weeks now. It brings up the dichotomy we set up between heavenly things and earthly things, and begs the question of what heaven is really like.
What things give us valid pleasure here on earth? Food, sex, love, art, humor come to mind. I'm sure you can think of more.
But will they exist in heaven?
Art - sure.
Food? Well, if there's food, then there would have to be the processing of waste products (unless heavenly food is sort of super astronaut paste, in which case why bother?) So - are there toilets in heaven? I'm sure some people would argue not. No toilets? No food.
Humor? Well, if God had meant life to be funny, she surely would have put a joke or two in the Bible, don't you think? So scratch that.
Love? Sure, but in a platonic kind of way... not even cuddling - just safe, friendly friendships. BFF!
Sex? Surely not. We all know sex is for procreation, so why would there be sex in heaven? After all, you have to die to get into heaven, not be born there.
So it looks like that heaven is probably best described as an endless walk through the Louvre with some people you like a lot, but without beer and snacks.
What's my point? I'm not sure, but it seems that through history, the ascetics have won the heaven argument by default. Bodily pleasures are sinful, therefore they won't exist in heaven. If that's the case, who would want to go there if there's no fun? It would be like singing Kumbaya for 1,000 years.
I just can't believe the God who gave us the richness of experiences we have here on earth would have less in store for us there.
Oh, and while I have a risque post going here, why not end it with one of my favorite off-color jokes?
Why do Canadians do it doggie-style?
(answer after the jump)
So they can both watch the hockey game...
Thanks folks, I'll be here all week :)
March 14, 2007 in Religion | Permalink
Comments
I noticed in Ben Witherington's review of Rob Bell's "Sex God," he addressed this point:
"Rob is right that angels are by nature spirits. However, early Jewish tradition believed they could be male or female, and indeed that they could even have sex. For example, Gen. 6.1-4 was traditionally read as the story about angels (called sons of god here and in some other places as well) mating with human women producing a hideous hybrid between the two sorts of beings. It is precisely this gross violation of the creation order which prompts the flood according to Gen. 6. Furthermore, Jesus himself famously said that ‘we will be like the angels in heaven, neither marrying nor giving in marriage’. This refers to the act of marrying, not to having sex per se though the two are connected. His point is that we will not be starting any new marriage relationships in the next life at all. In this regard we will be like the angels, not sexless but rather without marrying."
http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/rob-bells-sexgod-book-first-rate-read.html
Personally, I think that trying to think of heaven in earthly terms ("Will it have this or that?") is missing the point. I am content to leave it beyond my present comprehension
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Unearthing Tantric Sex
So you have decided to uncover your blissful, inner goddess, sanctify your sexuality, awaken your chakras and rechannel your erotic and spiritual energies. Or have you just heard that Tantra is the new multiple orgasm and figured you can become the ultimate lover if you could only figure out what the hell Tantra is.
Well, here comes the de-New Aged rundown on this ancient practice, that - by the way - is going to need more than a weekend retreat or a DVD to properly understand. At the end of this article, you're unlikely to have a better understanding. With a bit of luck what you will understand is that there are no quick fixes for good sex. Just a lot of hard, hard work.
Tantra is a cousin of yoga. It involves breathing, meditating, movement and practicing. It can be done alone or with a partner, and can even be applied to general behaviour as much as it relates to your sexual world. Before you discover earth shattering orgasmic experiences, you are going to need to exercise your mind, your body and especially your patience.
Tantric sex is basically turning sex into a full body-mind-consciousness experience with a whole lot of psychedelic words. You learn to feel sensual and connected (to yourself and/or partner) by relaying your consciousness away from the genitals. This deconstructs peoples' sexual and erotic habits before bringing them all back together in a more focused and meaningful way.
There can be no quick tips or shortcuts, because it is the process that makes all the difference. Learning Tantra can be a whole new set of sexual experiences. Or, if you don’t take it too seriously, a huge amount of fun. Another function the Tantric exercises can fulfill is teaching you to let go of hang ups about your body and your sexual response.
Becoming One
Ouch! One sticky part of Tantra is the idea that a couple can learn to work as one, act as one and be one entity. This is great in bed, but relationship therapists will explain that this is a no-no when it comes to being a couple. You are still two individuals, with different thoughts and needs, even when you figure out how to come together!
Yin-Yang
Tantra is about opposites. Two separate people sharing one act, but enjoying it differently. Or one person bringing opposing parts of themselves into harmony without rejecting any part. It's also about accepting sex as active and inactive at the same time.
Chakras
According to various Eastern beliefs, there are seven main chakras on the human body, and each chakra represents an energy source with a whole functional sphere of its own. All these chakras are accessed during Tantra, which is a brilliant way to disperse the sexual energy. This is something that most people have come to associate with the genital area and little beyond it.
The seven stations are important both in terms of their physical characteristics, as well as the feelings and functions that they represent. Let's take them from the bottom, moving from the most base to the most spiritual.
Perineum – This is the base chakra, the root (the perineum it is the area between the vagina or testicles and the anus, but this chakra generally refers to the anus too). It deals with grounding yourself and your partner; when you get this one in sync, you are supposed to experience and give out a sense of safety and health. Massaging this chakra provides prostate and anal stimulation. The first chakra has relevance beyond the body, to finding balance and security in the material world.
Genital – the 2nd chakra, or the Sacral chakra, is about sensuality, sexuality and creativity. And reproduction, if that’s what you're into. Tantra puts a lot of focus on massaging the G-Spot and believes that female ejaculation is the inevitable outcome with sufficient practice. Vaginal massage is supposed to evoke and cleanse painful emotional memories (note from the Rape Crisis Centre: if it brings on a post-traumatic experience, just say NO; there are safer ways to deal with it).
Where men are concerned, massaging the penis is advised whether it is hard or not. The point it having the whole range of sensations.
Breathing is really important during genital touching, and this needs to be done in sync with one's Tantra partner. Individually, breathing can be used to pull energy from the genitals to the higher chakras.
Belly – also known as the Solar Plexis, this chakra is about empowerment and digestion. Its not quite clear how well that combo works…
The third chakra is about voicing and calming criticism, conforming or finding your unique self and eliciting inner strength. The belly also refers to being active and having guts, as it were.
All good stuff, really, so don’t forget to pay respects to this area, even if on the outside it's not as firm as one might have wanted.
Heart – El Corazon is for courage (we don’t need Tantra to tell us this, we have the Wizard of Oz!) It seems trivial, but the 4th chakra is activated not only by sharing love, but also by being open to receiving it. It means forgiving yourself and your partner, and allowing yourself to become closer to other people in your emotional sphere.
The exercises for this chakra involve consciousness practices that bring about emotional accessibility and joining.
Throat – the throat is about expression. According to the natural order of the chakras, the throat is considered a continuation of the heart chakra, but at the same time it is also the precursor. After all, verbal communication is only part of bringing two people together (provided they are using this skill well). Tantra speaks of the voice as an instrument that can be used to bring together a whole set of inner voices. The flip side of chakra number five is listening.
This is exercised by speaking to one another, kindly and honestly. Whether you use the lingo of lotuses and goddesses or the terms from your own vernacular, this communication should safely express your inner needs and desires and honour both the speaker and the listener.
Here's a Tantra dictionary for starters:
Vagina - Yoni (sacred space)
Penis - Lingam (wand of light)
Oral Sex – Honoring
Anus – Rosebud
Vaginal Lips – Drapes
Clitoris – Pearl
Brow – The sixth chakra, also known as the Third Eye chakra, represents intellect, vision and intuition. If the first two eyes see the past and the present, then the third eye is said to see the future. Taking it to the next level, it encompasses vision of what you want for yourself, your relationship and your society. This is the chakra meant to understand feelings and thoughts of others.
Crown – The last chakra is the spirituality centre, sitting on the very top of the head. The crown represents the unifying of all the previous chakras, combining them into one being.
This is the chakra for merging two spirits into one transcended couple, through which you will be illuminated and thereby drawn closer to all living beings. It may be difficult for people who are unfamiliar with spirituality to comprehend this level, but it's important to realize that sex and sensuality in Tantra covers the whole range of experiences from physical to metaphysical.
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To Have or not to Have? Sex on the First Date
Everyone at least once or twice in his or her life hesitated trying to answer this question.
He is sitting opposite to her, drinking wine and thinking of whether to invite her to his place.
Most of all she needs his tenderness now, but the only thing that bothers her mind is how to react to his attempts to get her in bed.
What makes people hesitate so much?
Will he think I am an easy woman? Will he call me tomorrow? - this thought is likely to come to mind of a woman who wishes to have stable and long-lasting relationships.
Will she think I don't respect her if I offer her going to my place? - this is a typical thought of a man who doesn't want to hurt a woman and hopes for stable relationships with her.
Does it correspond to morality? - it is not known whether this person is concerned with the impression he or she will make on the partner. But he certainly wants to be up to moral standarts, no matter by whom these are created.
Will it ruin romance? - those who think so do not find romance in sex.
These and other hesitations mean only one thing - you should not have sex on the first date as you are very likely to regret about what you did. Sex on the first date is suitable only for self-confident persons who know for sure what they want.
Should you have sex on the first date?
There are some signs which allow you to be sure that first date sex will not make you dissapointed, will not make you regret about what you did and will not leave feeling of guilt which is characteristic of persons who always want to be up to some moral standars.
1.You think that true love cannot be ruined by anything
John: „Whatever people say, I am strongly convinced that relationships between two people are predestined. Either they stay together for the end of their days, or they realize they should not be together and break up. What for me, I think that the earlier two people realize they are not each other's destiny, the better. If I feel like making love to a woman whom I date for the first time I do not hesitate as I know that sex cannot spoil relationships. Well, it might result in dissapointment, but this dissapointment means the only thing - sooner or later we would break up. I prefer to do that sooner.“
2.You do not care about morality and other standards
Liza: „Whatever I do in my life, I do that with only one purpuse - to make my life, or at least mood better. Do not misunderstand me. I do not mean that there are no responsibilities and duties, and I don't want to say that I don't care about others when doing something for myself. I want to say that I allow myself to do anything that does not interfere with lives of others. If I feel like having sex with this guy right now, than nothing can prevent me. What is better: to enjoy sex and feel satisfied or to refuse it for the name of morality? If morality prevents me from being happy, than I am an immoral person.“
3.You do not regret about anything
Paul: „It's better to regret about what you have done, than about what you haven't done - this is my principle. But in fact, I don't regret about anything. What for me, any experience is good experience. Once I had a trouble - after sex with a woman I met at my friend's birthday party I realized she infected me with an STD. Do you think I damned myself and her? Not at all. I arrived to the conclusion that I should always use condoms and that's it.“
The final conclusion is very simple - everything depends on you, and no one can tell you when you should have sex: on the first, second, third or some other date. Listen to your feelings, heart, intuition. Liza and Jack made love in a few hours they met each other. Now they are married and have a daughter. Julia and Paul had been dating for a half a year before they had their first sex. After a few months they broke up and now they avoid seeing each other. There is no formula of happiness and success. This is you who makes up your life. Trust your feelings.
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How to build a better relationship with romantic competition
In Romance Tracker’s last post, we learned that showing your romantic parter you love them is vastly more important than just saying you love them. There are a million different ways to say “I love you,” and if you limit yourself to only the spoken word you’re missing out on a whole exciting world of romantic opportunity. And while some forms of competition can have a negative effect on your relationship (competition that stokes jealous feelings should always be avoided), a little bit of romantic competition can bring you and your lover closer, teach you to interact together better, and add some spice to your relationship.For couples who enjoy fitness activities and sports, occasional physical competitions and games can build your romance while helping you both stay in great shape. Something as rough-and-tumble as wrestling or football might be out of the question for some (but not all!) couples, but less dangerous competitive sports such as tennis, track, golf or handball might be the perfect answer to build your romantic relationship.
Ideally, the sport should be one which doesn’t give one person an unfair advantage over another, so that both partners have a legitimate chance of coming out the winner. The point of adding romantic competition to a relationship isn’t to establish one person as physically or mentally superior to the other, but to learn how to better interact with each other and—gasp!—even how to deal with not being the winner. Give-and-take is a crucial part of any romantic relationship, and learning how to cope with not getting our way is an important part of romantic competition. Getting beat by your lover in a romantic game of tennis is a great way to learn to shrug off the inevitable losses that come with any successful relationship . . . and you’ll quickly come to the conclusion that even though you may be losing in the short run, in the long run you’re winning by becoming a healthier, happier couple!
But romantic competition doesn’t have to be just physical. There’s an endless number of competitive games that couples can play while alone together or on teams with a group of friends. Card games, board games, and even trivia can bring much-needed romantic competition to a relationship just as well as any physical sport. And while it may be tempting to always play on the same team as your romantic partner when with a group of friends, make sure you mix things up a bit by occasionally competing on different sides. Remember, the point of romantic competition is to teach you and your lover how to have fun with being the winner or the loser every now and then.
You’ll be amazed at how much more exciting and healthy your relationship will become by adding some romantic competition at least once a week, whether physical or non-physical. And remember: whether you win or lose the game, you’re always winning by building a better, more trusting romantic relationship. Have fun!
Ancient Sex Tricks Today
PWould you like to try something new but your fantasy fails you? What about trying something that was known to ancient people? Especially for you we have made a jorney through times to gather most amazing sex tricks, ideas and customes that you can try today! Make good use of our forefathers's experience!
Triobridian Islands
Ancient inhabitants of these Islands considered it very sexy and enjoyable to gnaw the partner's lashes.
How can you use it?
Do not gnaw anyone! This is painful and harmful! You can use your lashes in other, not less pleasant way. Try to tickle your partner's erogenous zones with your lashes - this is a really refined caress. Kiss your partner's eye - he will appreciate it. Well, this is not very sexy, but it's really tender and touching!
Аncient Romans
In Ancient Rome spouses had their first sex in the presence of witnesses.
How can you use it?
I am not quite sure you will enjoy having sex in a crowded place. But I can suggest you an alternative: you can make love in the presence of....yourself! Shoot your own erotic video with you and your boyfriend starring it! Next time watch it while making love. No doubt this will be your favorite movie!
Tanzania
Tanzanian women invented the most effective way to seduce a man. To get a man in her bed a woman stole his hoe and sandals
How can you use it?
Theft is prosecuted under law. Instead you can borrow something from him. For instance you can ask him to give you something costly. For instance a camera. And „forget“ to turn it back. When he delicately reminds you of your debt, invite him to your place. It is a good idea to have a bottle of wine. And condoms.
Manhaia Island
Inhabitants of Mahaia Island used to approve a great number of sex partners their daughters had. They considered that the more sex partners their daughter had the better choice the daughters could make.
How can you use it?
Your parents do differ from those who lived in Manhaia. You should not scare them by telling how handsome and thoughtful your fourty-fifth boyfriend is. Experience is a very useful thing, but do not confuse it with promisquity. And do not forget about safer sex. You need experience, and not STDs, don't you?
Ancient Slavs
Ancient slavs enjoyed making love in water of lakes and rivers or even on a float
How can you use it?
I do not advise you to make love in a river, a lake or a pound, as I think you are aware of environmental problems. But we have something that ancient slavs didn't have - these are bathrooms! One important tip: your lovemaking should be safe, put a rubber blanket on the floor so as not to slip down. And keep in mind that safer sex as well implies protecting yourself against unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Do use condoms which poor ancient Slavs did not have.
Ancient Koreans
Ancient Koreans considered that the best way to tone a man was to prick his penis with a needle!
How can you use it?
I do not dare even suppose what he will say if you prick his penis with anything. Well, if he can say something after such shock. A nervous man can even fall unconscious if you suddenly injure his manhood. Instead you had better kiss him. Or slightly bite his ear. As well at the most exciting moment you can wisper in his ear that you want.....well I'm not sure this will tone him, but a very strong orgasm is guaranteed. Next time he will do something cute for you.
But aren't you afraid he will use something from ancient times? For example gnawing your lashes?
Would you like to try something new but your fantasy fails you? What about trying something that was known to ancient people? Especially for you we have made a jorney through times to gather most amazing sex tricks, ideas and customes that you can try today! Make good use of our forefathers's experience!Triobridian Islands
Ancient inhabitants of these Islands considered it very sexy and enjoyable to gnaw the partner's lashes.
How can you use it?
Do not gnaw anyone! This is painful and harmful! You can use your lashes in other, not less pleasant way. Try to tickle your partner's erogenous zones with your lashes - this is a really refined caress. Kiss your partner's eye - he will appreciate it. Well, this is not very sexy, but it's really tender and touching!
Аncient Romans
In Ancient Rome spouses had their first sex in the presence of witnesses.
How can you use it?
I am not quite sure you will enjoy having sex in a crowded place. But I can suggest you an alternative: you can make love in the presence of....yourself! Shoot your own erotic video with you and your boyfriend starring it! Next time watch it while making love. No doubt this will be your favorite movie!
Tanzania
Tanzanian women invented the most effective way to seduce a man. To get a man in her bed a woman stole his hoe and sandals
How can you use it?
Theft is prosecuted under law. Instead you can borrow something from him. For instance you can ask him to give you something costly. For instance a camera. And „forget“ to turn it back. When he delicately reminds you of your debt, invite him to your place. It is a good idea to have a bottle of wine. And condoms.
Manhaia Island
Inhabitants of Mahaia Island used to approve a great number of sex partners their daughters had. They considered that the more sex partners their daughter had the better choice the daughters could make.
How can you use it?
Your parents do differ from those who lived in Manhaia. You should not scare them by telling how handsome and thoughtful your fourty-fifth boyfriend is. Experience is a very useful thing, but do not confuse it with promisquity. And do not forget about safer sex. You need experience, and not STDs, don't you?
Ancient Slavs
Ancient slavs enjoyed making love in water of lakes and rivers or even on a float
How can you use it?
I do not advise you to make love in a river, a lake or a pound, as I think you are aware of environmental problems. But we have something that ancient slavs didn't have - these are bathrooms! One important tip: your lovemaking should be safe, put a rubber blanket on the floor so as not to slip down. And keep in mind that safer sex as well implies protecting yourself against unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Do use condoms which poor ancient Slavs did not have.
Ancient Koreans
Ancient Koreans considered that the best way to tone a man was to prick his penis with a needle!
How can you use it?
I do not dare even suppose what he will say if you prick his penis with anything. Well, if he can say something after such shock. A nervous man can even fall unconscious if you suddenly injure his manhood. Instead you had better kiss him. Or slightly bite his ear. As well at the most exciting moment you can wisper in his ear that you want.....well I'm not sure this will tone him, but a very strong orgasm is guaranteed. Next time he will do something cute for you.
But aren't you afraid he will use something from ancient times? For example gnawing your lashes?
G-spot Position - How to Find it a Step by Step Guide
PAlthough the g spot is steeped in mystery it is actually quite easy to find if you know how to look for it and this is what this article is about how to find the g spot.
Find it and stimulate it and you will give your partner immense sexual pleasure, so here is your guide.
Men in the past were hunters and trackers. They had to find their prey in order to survive.
Today’s man, it seems, has lost (or at least forgotten) that all important talent.
Even if it’s forgotten, if you can follow some simple instructions and you have at least the basic equipment, you can find the g-spot.
The rewards of finding it, and exciting it, will be well worth your pursuit.
Basic Woman’s Anatomy
The G-spot (specifically the Gräfenberg spot named after the German doctor who first found it and documented it), is found the woman’s genital area just behind the pubic bone and it surrounds the urethra.
Sound confusing? Lets start at the opening of the vagina (impossible to miss, and if you will search a bit more, you can see the urethra from where a woman urinates).
Assuming you found the opening of the vagina, and using a well lubricated finger as a probe (the middle finger works best), proceed about 4 inches straight in.
The vagina has a top and bottom, and the bottom borders the rectum and anus, and the top borders the bladder.
It’s the top we are interested in here.
Do not go too far inside the vagina, as you will come to the cervix, which is the mouth of the uterus.
You have passed the g-spot if you are already there.
So assuming you are only about 4 inches into the vagina, feel with your finger probe the top surface.
You will feel some tissue that is somewhat rougher than the tissue around it. Therein lies the g-spot, or most of it.
If you can imagine that the woman’s clitoris is more of an internal and external organ, its nerve ending begin (or end) with the area you are feeling…the g-spot. Found it?
Good.
G-Spot Stimulation
Popular myths of masculinity and female misconception about large penis’ will have little to do with stimulation of the g-spot.
If you have an average size penis, and can hold an erection, you can stimulate the g-spot and bring your lady partner to a profound orgasm.
How is this done?
You need the correct sexual position, and there is one great position which is ideal for g-spot stimulation.
The first is with the man sitting on the edge of a bed, and woman mounted on top of him, with her legs wrapped around his back.
The man’s penis is inserted in the woman’s vagina, and the woman adapts the depth exactly to stimulate the g-spot.
No thrusting is necessary or required.
Just maintain the erection, press as hard as you can from the pelvic area, so the penis puts pressure on the g-spot.
The rest is all automatic from the female, and soon she will arrive at a deep and satisfying orgasm.
This position also stimulates the woman’s clitoris, and this double stimulation brings about this great
female orgasm.
G-Spot Stimulation Variations
A man can insert two well lubricated fingers, fingernail side down, and in a “come here” motion, press the two fingers against the g-spot area.
This is a very good technique also done during cunnilingus, and has a very positive effect on a woman’s ability to orgasm and re-orgasm in quick succession.
By Sacha Tarkovsky
www.net-planet.org
Although the g spot is steeped in mystery it is actually quite easy to find if you know how to look for it and this is what this article is about how to find the g spot.Find it and stimulate it and you will give your partner immense sexual pleasure, so here is your guide.
Men in the past were hunters and trackers. They had to find their prey in order to survive.
Today’s man, it seems, has lost (or at least forgotten) that all important talent.
Even if it’s forgotten, if you can follow some simple instructions and you have at least the basic equipment, you can find the g-spot.
The rewards of finding it, and exciting it, will be well worth your pursuit.
Basic Woman’s Anatomy
The G-spot (specifically the Gräfenberg spot named after the German doctor who first found it and documented it), is found the woman’s genital area just behind the pubic bone and it surrounds the urethra.
Sound confusing? Lets start at the opening of the vagina (impossible to miss, and if you will search a bit more, you can see the urethra from where a woman urinates).
Assuming you found the opening of the vagina, and using a well lubricated finger as a probe (the middle finger works best), proceed about 4 inches straight in.
The vagina has a top and bottom, and the bottom borders the rectum and anus, and the top borders the bladder.
It’s the top we are interested in here.
Do not go too far inside the vagina, as you will come to the cervix, which is the mouth of the uterus.
You have passed the g-spot if you are already there.
So assuming you are only about 4 inches into the vagina, feel with your finger probe the top surface.
You will feel some tissue that is somewhat rougher than the tissue around it. Therein lies the g-spot, or most of it.
If you can imagine that the woman’s clitoris is more of an internal and external organ, its nerve ending begin (or end) with the area you are feeling…the g-spot. Found it?
Good.
G-Spot Stimulation
Popular myths of masculinity and female misconception about large penis’ will have little to do with stimulation of the g-spot.
If you have an average size penis, and can hold an erection, you can stimulate the g-spot and bring your lady partner to a profound orgasm.
How is this done?
You need the correct sexual position, and there is one great position which is ideal for g-spot stimulation.
The first is with the man sitting on the edge of a bed, and woman mounted on top of him, with her legs wrapped around his back.
The man’s penis is inserted in the woman’s vagina, and the woman adapts the depth exactly to stimulate the g-spot.
No thrusting is necessary or required.
Just maintain the erection, press as hard as you can from the pelvic area, so the penis puts pressure on the g-spot.
The rest is all automatic from the female, and soon she will arrive at a deep and satisfying orgasm.
This position also stimulates the woman’s clitoris, and this double stimulation brings about this great
female orgasm.
G-Spot Stimulation Variations
A man can insert two well lubricated fingers, fingernail side down, and in a “come here” motion, press the two fingers against the g-spot area.
This is a very good technique also done during cunnilingus, and has a very positive effect on a woman’s ability to orgasm and re-orgasm in quick succession.
By Sacha Tarkovsky
www.net-planet.org
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Sex life need a boost?
It’s so very often that i find myself defending the institution that i proudly call home against charges of godlessness, total leftist domination, and immorality, or worse, amorality.
and THIS is how you thank me?!?!
from the Yard Bulletin, the weekly publication put out by the Freshman Dean’s Office advertising various events of interest to the freshman class:
Hooking up at Harvard
Hot Hints for Making Your Harvard (or Future) Sex Life Great.
March 1, 7:00 PM at Ticknor Lounge
Want to know more about how to access pleasure, how to com-
municate your desires and how to make sure that you’re getting
what you want and need from your partner? Do you have ques-
tions about sex or sexuality that you’ve never had answered?
Join us for a scintillating and sexy talk with Amber Madison,
author of the recently released book “Hooking Up: An all-out
guide to sex and sexuality.” Amber will share helpful advice and
crucial information about having a gratifying sexual life now, or
later! You’ll also have the opportunity to submit a question
anonymously to have answered during the session.
when i got this in email form, i, like others, deleted it, thinking it was spam or some sort of Lampoon email prank. but then, when i got the same email again from Caleb Weatherl (this time, of course, with commentary attached), i read it and realized how wrong i had been. yes, this is an event that promises a scintillating and sexy talk with someone who is apparently this generation’s Dr. Ruth. and yes, it is being promoted by the office of the Dean of Freshmen. of Harvard College.
now i debated not even posting about this, because, to be quite honest, seeing this made me, for the first time since the ouster of Larry Summers, embarassed to be a Harvard student. i don’t deny that, for those who choose to make particular lifestyle choices, the information this seminar chooses to offer is valuable, even important. but for those who make different lifestyle choices, this sort of event, bearing the official imprimatur of one’s college, will make one uncomfortable at best.
i don’t necessarily oppose the dissemination of this information for those interested, but i do oppose its being broadcast on official channels. the FDO is effectively endorsing the “hooking up” lifestyle by sponsoring the event and encouraging freshmen to attend. and of all people, freshmen! little lost freshmen, trying to find their niche at college, who look to that very office for guidance and support. what do they get in return? “and now we’ll learn about the clitoris…” oh, and to anticipate the FDO’s likely defense of its actions, putting “or Future” in parenthesis is not a particularly effective way of getting around the administrative endorsement of casual sex.
you may think i’m overreacting, but consider: perhaps the worst part of this is that i know someone, somewhere, got this official word from Harvard College about improving his or her sex life (now or later!) and said, “how can i make my sex life great if i don’t have one? well, if the Dean of Freshmen is telling me i need to be “hooking up at Harvard,” then there must be something wrong with me if i’m not. maybe i don’t belong here…” i don’t know whether our administration was trying to be “hip” or “ahead of the curve” or what, but all they succeeded in accomplishing was showing gross insensitivity to the needs of some of those very students whom they are charged with guiding through their first year at Harvard.
Posted by Jonathan under Harvard
It’s so very often that i find myself defending the institution that i proudly call home against charges of godlessness, total leftist domination, and immorality, or worse, amorality.and THIS is how you thank me?!?!
from the Yard Bulletin, the weekly publication put out by the Freshman Dean’s Office advertising various events of interest to the freshman class:
Hooking up at Harvard
Hot Hints for Making Your Harvard (or Future) Sex Life Great.
March 1, 7:00 PM at Ticknor Lounge
Want to know more about how to access pleasure, how to com-
municate your desires and how to make sure that you’re getting
what you want and need from your partner? Do you have ques-
tions about sex or sexuality that you’ve never had answered?
Join us for a scintillating and sexy talk with Amber Madison,
author of the recently released book “Hooking Up: An all-out
guide to sex and sexuality.” Amber will share helpful advice and
crucial information about having a gratifying sexual life now, or
later! You’ll also have the opportunity to submit a question
anonymously to have answered during the session.
when i got this in email form, i, like others, deleted it, thinking it was spam or some sort of Lampoon email prank. but then, when i got the same email again from Caleb Weatherl (this time, of course, with commentary attached), i read it and realized how wrong i had been. yes, this is an event that promises a scintillating and sexy talk with someone who is apparently this generation’s Dr. Ruth. and yes, it is being promoted by the office of the Dean of Freshmen. of Harvard College.
now i debated not even posting about this, because, to be quite honest, seeing this made me, for the first time since the ouster of Larry Summers, embarassed to be a Harvard student. i don’t deny that, for those who choose to make particular lifestyle choices, the information this seminar chooses to offer is valuable, even important. but for those who make different lifestyle choices, this sort of event, bearing the official imprimatur of one’s college, will make one uncomfortable at best.
i don’t necessarily oppose the dissemination of this information for those interested, but i do oppose its being broadcast on official channels. the FDO is effectively endorsing the “hooking up” lifestyle by sponsoring the event and encouraging freshmen to attend. and of all people, freshmen! little lost freshmen, trying to find their niche at college, who look to that very office for guidance and support. what do they get in return? “and now we’ll learn about the clitoris…” oh, and to anticipate the FDO’s likely defense of its actions, putting “or Future” in parenthesis is not a particularly effective way of getting around the administrative endorsement of casual sex.
you may think i’m overreacting, but consider: perhaps the worst part of this is that i know someone, somewhere, got this official word from Harvard College about improving his or her sex life (now or later!) and said, “how can i make my sex life great if i don’t have one? well, if the Dean of Freshmen is telling me i need to be “hooking up at Harvard,” then there must be something wrong with me if i’m not. maybe i don’t belong here…” i don’t know whether our administration was trying to be “hip” or “ahead of the curve” or what, but all they succeeded in accomplishing was showing gross insensitivity to the needs of some of those very students whom they are charged with guiding through their first year at Harvard.
Posted by Jonathan under Harvard
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